What is the ultimate goal? When is it that you finally “made it”? Is it maybe when you finish school? When you marry? When you have children? When you retire? Please think, when is it that you’ll say: I’m complete, now I can start living as intended, as it is supposed to be. When is that time coming?
Let me tell you a secret, that moment is never going to arrive.
It may seem as so, when we get success or a great relationship or something but just as that came, another thing will come after that will promise us the same thing: completion.
We are never going to be complete, we are never going to be perfect. We will never have our life in complete order. Change will do what it does best, change everything. If your relationships are great but you become too comfortable, they will start fail. If your business is doing great and you stop putting attention to it, it will too surely fail. If you don’t take care of your body, daily, you’ll die quicker.
Does this sounds a bit to harsh? A bit to real? Well, It’s better to be informed. What then, is worthy?
Virtue is the supreme good. I want to make something clear.
What do you understand for virtue? In our times, virtue can sound lame right? Like, there are so many cool things out there constantly appearing on facebook and instagram. Friends at the beachor hot women everywhere on instagram. Our friends are marrying and the photos show just pure joy and love. Dan Bilzerian riding a tank with a chick on his side. We see perfect lives everywhere, everywhere we look it looks like people has made it. And what does virtue offer? how in the world can virtue be the supreme good? This is a very, very, good question.
When we see all this amazing stuff in social media we fall into a trap, the trap of completion. This trap tells us that when we have achieved, the success, the marriage, that trip or anything else, then we’ll be complete. The secret is as we already know, that there is no completion, that is a game we are never going to win. Even getting all that stuff will not be fun and we will not be able to enjoy it if we remain in that state of mind.
If we are never going to be complete while pursuing all that amazing stuff, what then? We have to realize that how we are right now, with imperfections and everything, is enough. We have already arrived. There is no more running. Virtue is the only good and you have it right now. You don’t need to wait to have all that stuff, and you can be who you want to be right now. This is why virtue is the sole good, this is what being virtuous means. Being a virtuous man means not getting played with the game everyone is playing like mindless rats running the endless circle.
What is the answer then? Not wanting anything and just being content with a smile all the time? not pursuing anything?
Not at all. We can have all that stuff but we do not longer seek it to feel we are enough or complete. We focus more on the process, on the journey than in the goal itself. Only then can we start truly living. Only then can we be free to do what is actually important, not being limited by some worldly thing but being able to grab all those things from the abundance of our soul. All those things become a bonus, not an end to pursue. This is Freedom.
Once we start truly living, we see life for what it is, magnificence. Such an infinitesimal probability that we are blessed to have.
For this reason I am all the more angry that some men claim the major portion of this time for superfluous things,—time which, no matter how carefully
it is guarded, cannot suffice even for necessary
Once we realize that our life is now and not in some other place in the future, our time becomes precious. We realize that it is now that we live, not at some other point in time. This knowledge is essential. What is important now? To live as fully as possible.
Bring it to pass that I shall cease trying
To escape from death, and that life may cease to escape from me.
We have to accept death in our lives. It can be today, or it can be tomorrow or ten years from now. But we have to accept that there is no time, there is no time to waste, waiting for something to truly start living.
It is not everywhere that death shows himself so near at hand ; yet everywhere he is as near at hand.
Those amazing projects you have in mind? The time is now.
That girl you want to ask out? The time is now.
“If we take eternity to mean not infinite temporal duration but timelessness, then eternal life belongs to those who live in the present.”
Only when you accept death, you will stop escaping life.
Open your eyes to infinity. Accept that you are enough as imperfect as you are right now and strive forever to perfection. This is what being a human being is all about.
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